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“Enemies” at Official Commemorations


Exercise description The day before, ask individuals from the group to take on roles for this exercise so that they can prepare. Their task will be to participate in displaying a commemoration for fal


“Husband, Wife, Compote” Story


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description The participants split into two or three groups. A volunteer from each group is taken aside and the story below is read out to them. Then they


“Little Red Riding Hood” Story


Materials: “Little Red Riding Hood” from the wolf’s perspective   “Little Red Riding Hood” Story Exercise description In the plenary, read this version of “Little Red Riding Hood”, which is diffe


“Nonviolence” Barometer


Method Barometar   Exercise description Suggestions of issues: You should approach your adversary with trust. Nonviolence does not take advantage of the adversary’s weaknesses. Nonviolence yields


“Power” Barometer


Materials: Large piece of paper, markers   Exercise description Barometer method Suggestions of issues: Power is a negative attribute. Everyone wants power. I am powerful. Power can always be abu


3 + 2 Identities


Materials: Small papers of different colours, pencils Exercise description The participantssitina circle.Everyonegetsthreepapers(notes) of one colour and two of another colour. They are told to write


5 Minutes of Silence


Exercise description Everyone sits in a circle in silence. Their task is to listen to the sounds in the room and coming in from outside. After five minutes, the participants list the sounds they heard


A Fair Attitude to the Past?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Step1. Split into smaller groups based on nationality, ethnicity or religion. Each group is tasked with making a wall newspaper on: “Wha


A Pebble for a Present


Materials: Pebbles Exercise description The morning or evening before the exercise, ask participants to go for a short walk, alone or with company, and to each find one pebble that they can bring to t


A River of Identities


Materials: A stack of A4 paper   Exercise description Everyone gets five pieces of A4 paper. Task: On each one write in large letters one thing that means a lot to you. All papers are gathered an


A Step Forward


Materials: Cards with descriptions of roles Exercise description Prepare as many cards with roles as there are participants. Randomly hand out the cards to the participants. They are not to tell anyon


Action Pillars*


Materials: Large pieces of paper, markers, “action pillars” model   Exercise description The participants are divided into three groups. The groups are given the task of choosing a specific socia


Active Listening Exercise


Materials: Flipchart paper, marker   Exercise description Split the group into pairs. Person A takes five minutes to tell their partner, person B, about something that angered them recently or wa


Actors in Dealing with the Past


Materials: Paper, felt-tip pens, masking tape   Exercise description With the help of the training team, the participants identify all the social groups relevant in public and political life (pol


Airplane


Materials: “Lifesavers” made of paper (prepared in advance), large piece of paper, markers   Exercise description Prepare lifesavers in advance by cutting them out of a large piece of paper (see


Alternatives


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Step 1. Brainstorming in the plenary: “How would you describe the situation in your societies?” Then we mark the notes that describe wha


An Emotion Expressed with a Number


The participants pair up. Participants have the task of telling an emotion to their partner that was given to them by the trainer (for e.g. “You are sad now” or “You are angry now”) but they can only


Analysing Behaviour in Conflict Using a Chart


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers, prepared conflict behaviour analysis charts Exercise description The participants fill out the chart in small groups. They give presentations in the plenary, follo


Annexes for the Workshop Nonviolent Communication


I-speech I-speech is a nonviolent communication technique that enables the expression of needs and wishes and aims to improve understanding of the other and of oneself. It is concrete and focuses on a


As If I…


Everyone walks around the room. When the trainer gives the signal, everyone acts as if what the trainer just said had actually happened: – You heard some great news. – You are very tired. – It suddenl


Assigning Identity


Exercise description Everyone writes down five of their identity markers on a piece of paper so others can’t see. Then the participants split into three groups. Each group is given a bunch of post-its


Associations: Prejudice and Discrimination


Materials: Post-its, Flipchart paper, pencils   Exercise description For this exercise, you need to prepare a dozen terms denoting different social groups. For example: religious persons, soldier


Associations: Women, Men


Exercise description The participants split into two groups: women and men. All the participants in both groups get two post- its each. They have 30 seconds to write down the first things that come to


Auction


Materials: “Paintings”, “Points” Exercise description The participants split into three groups. Each group is given the task of buying as many paintings at the auction as they can. The bidding for eac


Better Understanding


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into four groups. Group discussions about: “What contributes to better understanding and constructive dialogue? Which modes of com


Blind Following*


Materials: Blindfolds (scarves, kerchiefs, etc.)   Exercise description Before the workshop, ask participants to bring something to the workshop that they can use as a blindfold (a scarf, kerchie


Box


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into men and women. Each group gets a flipchart paper with a rectangle drawn in the middle symbolising the “box”


Brainstorming


The task is to list them on the board of the association on a certain topic. Associations are recorded without comment and discussion, and the facilitator may request a brief explanation of the term.


Brainstorming: Associations Related to the Word Leader



Brainstorming: Conflict (associations)



Brainstorming: Daily Situations When I Encounter the Wartime Past



Brainstorming: Power



Brainstorming: Violence



Brainstorming: What Are the Factors that Influence the Construction of Identity?



Brainstorming: What Is Teamwork?



Brainstorming: Where Do Prejudices Come From?



Centipede*


Materials: Chairs or other items to serve as obstacles Exercise description The participants split into two groups. Each group forms a “centipede”: They stand in a column, eyes closed, with their hand


Chair Statues About “The Power of Nonviolence”


Materials: 6–7 chairs   Exercise description Exercise description Instructions: The task is to use six or seven chairs to construct a statue that symbolises the power of nonviolence. After the fi


Chair Statues About Power


Materials: 6–7 chairs   Exercise description Exercise description Instructions: The task is to use six or seven chairs to construct a statue that symbolises power. After the first person construc


Change!


Exercise description If it is a large group, divide it into two smaller groups. The group stands in a circle. One person is the “initiator”. The initiator steps into the centre of the circle and their


Choosing the King/Queen of the Group


Materials: Post-its, pencils, chair   Exercise description Instructions: You have unlimited time to pick one of you to be the king/queen of the group, but without talking.   Evaluation Sugge


Circle of Trust


Exercise description Everyone stands in a circle with one person in the middle (make sure to start off with someone from the training team). The person in the middle stands with eyes closed, their bod


Collective Narratives About the 1990s Wars


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into smaller groups based on the countries they come from. Their task is to make a wall newspaper with the basic


Come and Go


Exercise description Participants are divided into two groups – group A and group B. The groups line up to face each other with a few metres between the lines so that each person in one group has a co


Commendations


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description The participants write a commendation for a person they know on a piece of paper. All the papers are collected into a “hat”. The trainer pulls


Concentric Circles of Introduction


The chairs are set up in two concentric circles, so that each chair in one circle faces a chair in the other (see illustration). The number of chairs is equal to the number of participants. The partic


Conflict and Modelling Clay


Materials: Modelling clay Exercise description The participants use modelling clay and plasticine to make a sculpture about conflict. An exhibition of sculptures is set up where everyone presents thei


Conflict Barometer


Exercise description The barometer method Suggested statements for the barometer: Every conflict is bad. Conflict is the same as violence. You should show your emotions in a conflict. The victim also


Controlled Dialogue*


Exercise description Using the barometer set-up with the poles of Strongly Agree and Strongly Disagree, find pairs with different opinions and an observer for each pair. Barometer method: Determine tw


Cooperation Agreement


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Participants give suggestions for terms of the Cooperation Agreement. Someone from the training team writes these down so everyone can s


Creating a Certificate


Materials: Coloured paper, pencils, small pieces of paper with the names of everyone written on them, “hat”   Exercise description Write the names of everyone present beforehand on small pieces o


Criteria for Activists (“Dub” Island)


Materials: Large pieces of paper, markers Exercise description Step 1. Divide into three groups. The task is for the participants to determine which criteria people involved with peacebuilding should


Culture of Memory Before and After the 1990s


Materials: Flipchart paper, marker   Exercise description Plenary discussion about characteristics of the culture of memory before the 1990s and after the wars. One member of the training team wr


Cutting Paper


  Materials: Large paper and scissors   Exercise description Call for volunteers who want to participate in the exercise, a total of seven people. Their task is to first think of a paper sha


Dealing with the Past Barometer


Exercise description Barometer method   Suggestions of issues: There is no such thing as collective responsibility. It would be best for international tribunals to prosecute war crimes. We must n


Dealing with the Past Fishbowl


Exercise description   The fishbowl method is described in detail at the beginning of this section on p. 65. There are four chairs in the fishbowl: three are taken up by people who want to discus


Dealing with the Past in My Society


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into groups based on the countries they come from. Their task is to prepare a presentation on the state of dealin


Decision Making Model


Exercise description Split into two groups. In both groups one to two people have the role of observers of the decision- making process (volunteers). The groups are given the task of making a decision


Definition of Violence


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description Split into pairs or threes. Each pair or group of three is to come up with their definition of violence. The definitions are read out in the pl


Definitions of Conflict


Materials: Paper/card, multiple sheets for each participant Exercise description The participants take one or more cards and legibly write out their answer to the question: “What is conflict?” They wr


Delegating Exercise


Materials: Prepared index cards with more information for the groups Exercise description Split  into  three  groups:  “Drama”,  “Music”  and “Computers/English”. Story: “The youth centre in a small B


Denial, Justification, Truth Seeking


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into three smaller groups, each of which is to work on a wall newspaper addressing one of the following types of


Developing Ideas About Peace/Nonviolent Activism


Materials: A few copies of the questionnaire, a large piece of paper, markers   Exercise description Divide the participants into smaller groups. Each group should talk through ideas for peace ac


Developing Ideas About Peace/Nonviolent Activism 2


Exercise description Divide the participants into smaller groups. Participants develop the idea and plan how to implement peace activities using a catalogue of questions as a basis. Then they present


Discrimination against Women and Discrimination against Men


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into four groups: two of just men and two of just women. One men’s and one women’s group (independently) write ou


Documentary from the Series on Simulated Dialogue


Materials: Equipment to show and watch the film Exercise description The documentary series Simulated Dialogue* establishes indirect dialogue between people from the Balkans. Each of the films deals w


Drawing Battle


Materials: Paper and pencils Exercise description Everyone splits up into pairs of person A and person B. The participants are asked not to talk during the exercise. All the A persons are taken aside


Drawing by Instruction


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description Everyone gets a sheet of paper and pencil. The trainer gives instructions for drawing geometric shapes that will make up a concrete drawing. A


Drawing on Your Neighbour’s Back


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description Everyone stands in a circle and turns sideways so that they are looking at the back of the person next to them. One person draws something with


Driver


The participants pair up. Person A is in front and has their eyes closed. Person B is the driver who drives by giving the following signals: squeezing the left shoulder means turn left, squeezing the


Elephant Walk


Materials: Blindfolds, tables, chairs, textiles, other props   Exercise description Before the workshop, ask participants to bring something to the workshop that they can use as a blindfold (a sc


Enemy images


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description Split into groups according to the participant’s home country/region. Step 1. The participants are instructed to list the groups their environm


Enemy images 2


Split into three smaller groups: The participants discuss: Who are the enemies in our societies, who are the “others”? What are images of the enemy used for? Who constructs these images, how and why?


Example of an Evaluation Questionnaire


  What was the most significant experience for you at the training? What do you think you got with this training that you can put to use in the community you live in? Which workshops/topic did yo


Exercise with Tasks (2)


Materials: Prepared envelopes with tasks, Paper, pencils, Flipchart paper, markers, other Exercise description   There are 18 tasks in the workroom, one for each participant. The  participants sh


Exercise with Tasks*


Materials: Prepared envelopes with tasks, Paper, pencils, Flipchart paper, markers, other Exercise description   The participants are given envelopes containing descriptions of tasks. The tasks a


Expectations From Peace Activists


Materials: Paper, pencils Exercise description This exercise may be carried out together with the exercise Criteria for Activists (“Dub” Island), or independently from it. Version 1: A piece of paper


Exploring Expectations: Travel Bag


The participants draw a travel bag on the paper. They divide it into two equal parts. In one part they list What I brought to this training and in the other What I would like to take with me. They pre


Exploring Expectations: Tree of Expectations


Distribute the post-its. Give the participants a few minutes to write down their answers to the following questions: ͳ What would I like to see happen in this training? (on post-its of one colour, e.g


Falling


Materials: Table or chair   Exercise description A volunteer stands on a table or chair. They stand with their body upright and their arms by their side. Then they fall backwards (with their back


Family Narratives


Exercise description   Everyone has ten minutes to think about and note down an outline of narratives they heard in their family about the Second World War and the wars of the 1990s. Additional q


Fear Statues


Duration: 70 minutes   Exercise description Split into three groups. The groups are separated into different rooms or spaces and given the task to prepare a statue about fear, paying particular a


Feedback in Pairs


Exercise description Before the exercise, briefly introduce the notion of feedback, its rules and purpose. This is an opportunity to give each other feedback and to receive it. We approach a person we


Finishing Sentences


Materials: Big paper, felt-tips   Exercise description Big pieces of paper are everywhere on the ground and there is a sentence that has been started on each of them. Participants go up to them a


First Round


Materials: Chairs   Exercise description The chairs are set up in two concentric circles, so that each chair in the inner circle faces a chair in the outer circle (see illustration). The number o


Fishbowl


The Fishbowlis a method for discussing a topic or making a decision. The participants sit in a circle with four to six chairs placed in the middle of the circle to represent the “fishbowl”. During the


Fishbowl: Agreement on Working Together


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description Fishbowl Method Step 1 – Split into three groups. Each group prepares a proposal for an agreement on working together. Each group chooses two r


Five Minutes of Power Over You*


Materials: Paper and pencils Exercise description Divide the group up into pairs. The instructions are: “Decide which one of you will have power over the other person for the next five minutes. If eve


Fortress*


The participants split into two groups. One group will be in the “fortress” and the other will be outside trying to get in. Both groups have 15 minutes to prepare a strategy in separate rooms. Additio


Forum Theatre


Set of Introductory Exercises for the Theatre of the Oppressed Driver Leading by the Palm Leading by Sound Magical Object Linking Statues Duration: 35 minutes   Setting the Play Duration: 60 minu


Four Colours, Drawing Exercise


Materials: 4 flipchart papers; felt-tip pens, colouring pencils or crayons; questionnaire printout for each participant Exercise description Split into small groups of four. The participants pick a co


Fulfilled and Unfulfilled Expectations


Materials: Big paper, felt-tips   Exercise description This exercise can be done if at the beginning of the training the participants wrote down their expectations for the training. Draw a big ci


Grimace Circle


The participants stand in a circle. One person begins by turning to the person on their right and making a grimace (and/or a movement). That person now has to repeat this grimace before turning to the


Hot Seats


The chairs are arranged into a horseshoe. Three chairs are set apart as “hot seats” so that everyone sitting in the horseshoe can see them well (see illustration). The only chair from which you can sp


Hotels


Exercise description Task: “You are in the role of participants in peacebuilding training. Your task is to decide where the next stage of the training will be held. The training team will not facilita


How Do I See the Next Five Years of My Life?


Materials: Paper, felt-tip pens, colouring pencils   Exercise description Everyone should think for themselves about where they see themselves in the next five years and then make a graphic repre


How I Became a Man/Woman


Materials: Copies of the questionnaire Exercise description The participants split into smaller groups of four or five. Their task is to discuss in their small groups: “How I became a man/woman. What


How I See Peacebuilding


Exercise description Split into smaller groups. Questions for discussion and preparing a presentation: What is peacebuilding for me? Values we connect to peacebuilding. Reasons why peacebuilding is re


How the war marked my life


Materials: Chairs The hot seats method   Use the hot seats method. The task is to use the item they have selected and brought along to tell their story about “How the war marked my life.”


How We’re Mutually Connected


Exercise description One person stands in the middle of the room and invites someone from the group to briefly explain what connects them. Both persons now remain in the middle of the room, but now th


I Am Telling You a Story


An exercise for waking up the imagination. Prepare cards (papers) so that each has one word written on it (nouns). The number of cards is three times bigger than the number of participants. Everyone p


I Compete When…


Materials: Flipchart paper, pens Exercise description Split into three groups. Each group is tasked with preparing a wall newspaper about one of the following topics: – I compete when… – I run away


I Will Remember


Materials: Several large pieces of paper, felt-tip pens   Exercise description Use several large flipchart papers to make a “path” long enough so that several people can approach it at once and w


I Will… / I Need…


Materials: Different coloured post-its, pencils   Exercise description Distribute several post-its in various colours to participants. Participants should think about what they have gained from t


I Wish Women/Men Were…



I’m Sorry…


Materials: Chairs   Exercise description The hot seats method The person sitting in the hot seat in the middle tells their story about “I’m sorry that…” which is related to the past wars and th


Iceberg


Materials: Flipchart paper, felt-tip pens, markers Exercise description The trainer introduces the meaning of the term “iceberg”. The iceberg is a symbolic representation of what we show and what we c


Identity Barometer


Exercise description The barometer method Suggested statements for the barometer: I am a patriot. I have a better understanding with people of my religion. Conflicts are inevitable among people of dif


Insider/Outsider*


Exercise description The participants split into two groups of roughly the same size. One group should be asked to leave the room until they are invited back inside. The trainer does a fun exercise (t


Introductions in Pairs


Everyone stands in a circle. The trainer tells the participants to find a partner with whom they believe they have the most in common and then sets a topic for discussion in pairs. For each new topic,


Jigsaw Puzzle*


Exercise description The participants split into groups of five (the remaining participants can be observers). Everyone stays in the same room, but the groups sit in separate circles. It would be best


Journal


Materials: Notebook, pencil The journal is a notebook that is always in the workshop room. Participants and trainers can write their thoughts in the notebook, as well as messages that they want to sha


Justice, Forgiveness, Truth, Peace


Exercise description Pairs of participants are tasked with advocating (i.e. speaking in favour of) one of the following terms: justice, forgiveness (or mercy), truth, or peace. These are the four elem


Justice, Forgiveness, Truth, Reconciliation*


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into four small groups: justice, forgiveness, truth, and reconciliation. The groups discuss and prepare a present


Labyrinth


Materials: Blindfolds, chairs   Exercise description Divide into small groups of six or seven people. In each group, one person wears a blindfold. Using chairs, the others make a small labyrinth


Labyrinth of reconciliation


Divided in groups of 5-6, participants receive 20-30 notions written on paper strips, that ought to be categorized whether they belong to the reconciliation process and if not, explain why not. Time:


Large Barometer


The Large Barometer uses a larger number of statements (20–40) – at least as many as there are participants and up to twice as many. It is important that the prepared statements are relevant to the gr


Large barometer: Peacebuilding


Materials: Prepared pieces of paper with statements (see exercise description) The large barometer method. The poles of the barometer are “Is peacebuilding” and “Is not peacebuilding”. Some statements


Large Barometer: Violence


Materials: Pieces of paper prepared with statements (see exercise description)   Exercise description The Large Barometer method  Some statements for the barometer: 1.    Balkan countries are rac


Large Barometer: What Does (Not) Contribute to Dealing with the Past?


Materials: Prepared papers with statements (see exercise description)   Exercise description The large barometer method The poles for the barometer are: “Contributes to dealing with the past” and


Large Barometer: What Is/Is Not Ethical?


Materials: Prepared papers with statements (see exercise description) The large barometer method   Exercise description The poles of the barometer are “Is ethical” and “Is not ethical”.   So


Leadership Barometer


Exercise description   The barometer method Go through three to five statements.   Suggested statements for the barometer: A leader must be a figure of authority. Any complex task requires a


Leading by Sound


The participants pair up. The pairs choose a sound (for example, onomatopoeia, an exclamation) that they will use to recognise each other. Person A in each group has the task of leading Person B using


Leading by the Palm


The group is divided into pairs. In each pair, one participant leads by holding their palm at a certain distance (5–10 cm) from their partner’s face. The distance from the face to the palm has to be a


Left and Right Hand Signatures


Exercise description Paper and pencils are distributed to the participants and they are asked to sign their name. Then they are supposed to use one word to describe how it felt while someone from the


Let Me Introduce Myself


Everyone takes a sheet of paper. They write their name in the middle. Then they write: in the upper left corner: how I feel at the moment in the upper right corner: two things I like to do in the bott


Let Me Introduce You


The participants split into pairs. Everyone tells their partner some information about themselves. The other person listens carefully and tries to commit this information to memory. They then switch r


Let Me Tell You a Picture


Materials: A picture with a lot of details   Exercise description The participants split into three groups. A volunteer from each group leaves the room. The trainer shows the volunteers a picture


Life on an Island


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description The participants split into small groups (of 5 to 7 people). They are told that they find themselves on a desert island – each small group on i


Linking Statues


Everyone stands in a wide circle. One person makes a statue in the centre of the circle and the first person who has an idea about making a joint statue with the one that they see comes into the circl


Magazine Analysis


Materials: Daily newspapers, weeklies, magazines   Exercise description Split into three groups: one “female”, one “male” and one “mixed”. Work in groups. Instructions for the working groups: “Yo


Magic Box


One by one, people draw an “invisible object” (i.e. an imaginary one) from the “magic box” (which can be a box, a hat or something similar). They use mime to reveal what it is to the others, who must


Magical Object


Everyone stands in a circle. The trainer says that they have a magical object that transforms as soon as it changes hands: it changes its shape, size, weight, smell, turns into a different object. The


Mapping the Patriarchy and Militarism


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into two groups. One group is to map the patriarchy and the other is to map militarism in our societies. They should also prepare


Marching*


Materials: Music Exercise description Choose a piece of music beforehand that all the participants might like and make sure you have the means to play it. Ask for a volunteer (someone who can challeng


Memorialisation: Monuments


Materials: Photographs of monuments, flipchart paper, marker   Exercise description Step1. Prepare wall newspapers in the plenary about: “What are monuments for? What is their purpose? Who do we


Memorialisation: Monuments 2


Materials: Photographs of monuments, flipchart paper, marker Exercise description Step1. In smaller groups, start a discussion about the function of existing forms of memorialisation. Prepare a wall n


Method Barometer


Prepare statements beforehand based on the topic. Determine two “poles” (end positions) in the room: for instance, one wall can stand for one pole (strong agreement with a statement) and the opposite


Multicoloured Barometer about Dealing with the Past


Materials: Coloured paper, papers with statements prepared beforehand   Exercise description A few sets of papers are prepared beforehand, each with a statement/sentence. The papers should be of


Multicoloured Eyes


Type of exercise: Multicoloured barometer Exercise description Materials: Coloured paper, papers with statements prepared beforehand A few sets of papers are prepared beforehand, each with a statement


Musical Chairs


Materials: Chairs, a music-playing device, flipchart paper, marker, multicoloured paper Exercise description   A few days beforehand, the participants are split into four groups. The training tea


My Attitude to Conflict


Materials: Paper, felt-tip pens Exercise description Ask the participants to write down three associations about conflict, one per piece of paper. Then the papers are laid out on the floor in the midd


My Conflicts


Materials: Paper and pencils Exercise description Everyone should think of a conflict they were involved in, specifically: a conflict that isn’t yours, but you’re implicated in it; a conflict you like


My Contribution to Reconciliation


Exercise description The task is for each participant to say what they see as their contribution to reconciliation, taking turns around the circle. Before they start, they should be given some time to


My Definition of Peace


Materials: Different coloured paper, felt-tip pens   Exercise description Everyone in the group writes their definition of peace on a different coloured piece of paper. Then a “colourful sea” of


My Foreign Friend


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers, felt-tip pens Exercise description Determine categories beforehand and write them out as titles on flipchart papers/wall newspapers. Examples of categories: my fri


My Name


Each person in the circle says their name and tells a story about it: what it means, how it was given to them, who gave it to them etc.


My Name Means


Each person in the circle says their name and what it means.    


My Path Up to Here


On a blank sheet of paper, everyone draws an arrow that illustrates the course of their life, “my path up to here”, and marks important events on this timeline. Time for drawing is up to five minutes.


My Questions About Gender Roles in Society/Gender Equality


Materials: Paper and pencils Everyone writes down their questions about the topic of the workshop. Then three small groups are formed: “female” – for women who want to talk with women “male” – for men


My Safe Space


Materials: Paper, coloured Paper, felt-tip pens, crayons, magazines, glue, scissors, etc.   Exercise description Everyone works independently on a drawing or a collage about “My Safe Space”. The


My Three Identities


Materials: Paper and pencils   Exercise description Everyone writes down a few of their identities and then chooses three to read out loud. Then one person stands up and reads their identities on


National Identity and Other Identities


Materials: Papers with a circle drawn on them, felt-tip pens Exercise description Everyone gets a paper with a circle drawn on it. The task is to make an identity “pie-chart”. In addition to national


National Identity Questionnaire


Materials: Printout of the questionnaire for all the participants.   Exercise description All participants are given a copy of the questionnaire. The trainer asks the participants to think back a


News from the Future


Materials: “News from the Future” prepared in advance   Exercise description Read out the following three pieces of “news from the future”: 1. The Association of BiH Army Veterans welcomed the Bi


Obstacles in Work: Situations


Materials: Handouts with situations   Exercise description Divide into three groups. Each small group is given two situation scenarios (of the three described below), which they need to examine.


One – Two – Three


Step 1. Participants pair up. In their pairs they count together: they take turns to count to three and then they start again from one. (A: “One”, B: “Two”, A: “Three”, B: “One”, A: “Two”…) This las


One of My Needs


Exercise description Everyone stands in a circle and everyone has the opportunity to express one of the needs that they have in terms of the group.  


One Word


Materials: Big paper, felt-tips   Exercise description A large piece of paper is placed on the floor. Participants have to think of a single word that would describe the training and to write it


Open Nights


The Open Nights are conceived of as an additional opportunity for team work outside of the planned thematic part of the training. Open Nights have become a significant segment of the Training for Trai


Open Space


This exercise enables the participants to create the content of the workshop. During the previous day, tell the participants to think about a topic or issue they want to discuss, how they would approa


Open Team


The Open Team are evaluation meetings by the training team after each work day that two or three participants can join. The Open Team gives the team an opportunity to hear suggestions and questions th


Opening the Fist*


Exercise description Divide participants into pairs. Person A in the pair has a clenched fist and person B has the task of opening the other person’s fist. Then the roles reverse.   Evaluation Su


Oral Evaluation of the Training


Exercise description In the plenary, sitting in a circle, people take turns giving their evaluation of the training. For directions, write out guiding questions. What did you receive from this trainin


Participants’ Expectations


Hand out the different coloured post-its. Give the participants a few minutes to write down their answers to the following questions: – What do I expect from this training? – What do I expect from mys


Parting Envelopes


Materials: Envelopes, paper, pencils Every member of the group, including the trainers, receives an empty envelope. Everyone writes their name on their envelope and displays it somewhere that has been


Past, Future


Materials: Paper, felt-tip pens   Exercise description Task: Pair up. 1) Think of at least three to five important moments in your relationship to peacebuilding so far. Write each on a separate p


Peacebuilding and Me


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers, felt-tip pens   Exercise description Everyone thinks about the following questions on their own: “Things that confuse and annoy me the most about peacebuildin


Peacebuilding Priorities in Different Countries


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split based on the countries they come from. Their task is to define the priorities of peacebuilding in their countries


Places that are Important to Me (The Map)


A map of the former Yugoslavia, Europe or the world (it can be a geographic map, road map or just contours drawn on flipchart paper) is put up on the wall. Participants approach the map one by one and


Planet


Materials: Paper, pencils Exercise description Check that everyone has a paper and pencil and then slowly and clearly read the background story at least twice. Story: “A new planet has been discovered


Planning Work on Peacebuilding in the Local Community


Materials: A few copies of the handout, a large piece of paper, markers Exercise description Step 1. Three participants from different communities  are  given  a  task  beforehand  (a  few days)  to  


Plenary Presentations with Started Sentences


Everyone sits in a circle. The started sentences are displayed so everyone can see them. One by one, each person introduces themselves in plenary and completes the started sentences: ͳ My name is… ͳ


Powerful Chair


Materials: Chair   Exercise description One chair is turned to face the whole group. One by one participants take this seat and call out several sentences that start with: “I have the power to…


Practising “I-speech” in Pairs


Exercise description Split into pairs. Instructions: Think about a situation that made you angry, explain the circumstances to your partner and role play your initial reaction. Your partner should res


Practising “I-speech” through Role Play


Exercise description Participants are divided into four groups (of four or five participants). They have 10 minutes to come up with a short conflict role play. It would be best to do something from pe


Prejudice about Ethnic/National Groups


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Step One (prejudice about your own group): The participants split into groups according to ethnicity. Each group should write on the wal


Prejudice against Me and My Prejudice


Exercise description Divide the participants into small groups to discuss two topics. Prejudice against me: Each of the participants describes to their group an experience when someone treated them wi


Prejudice Barometer


Exercise description The barometer method Suggested statements for the barometer: I have prejudice. I have the right to my prejudice. Prejudice leads to discrimination.  


Presenting a Model of Behaviour in Conflicts



Presidential Elections


Materials: Paper and pencils Exercise description The participants split into two groups: the “candidates” (five or six persons) and the “voters”. The candidates have two to three minutes to come up w


Pros and Cons


Materials: Large pieces of paper, markers Exercise description Division into small three groups. Step 1. Question: What would those who are against these kinds of meetings say to us? List and wrote on


Questions and Dilemmas I Am Trying to Solve


Flipchart papers are placed on the floor. The participants write their questions and/or dilemmas on them (relevant to the topic of the training). After ten minutes or so, someone from the training tea


Questions I’m Not Supposed to Ask


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into groups according to the participants’ home countries. The task is to prepare a wall newspaper about “Questions I’m not suppos


Quick Situations


Exercise description Read out a scenario (that simply demands a response) and ask the question: “What do you do?” The participants share their ideas about possible reactions. The goal isn’t to determi


Quick Situations (A version for war veterans)


Exercise description This exercise unfolds the same way as the Quick Situations exercise but this one is specifically tailored to groups of war veterans. You get a call from an association of veterans


Reconciliation and Me


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Flipchart papers are laid out on the floor, each with one of the following questions: What is my biggest challenge in reconciliation? Wi


Reconciliation Barometer


Exercise description Method barometar Suggestions of issues: Nation building is part of the reconciliation process. Recognising that an injustice has been committed and apologising are preconditions f


Reconciliation Fishbowl


Exercise description   The fishbowl method is described in detail at the beginning of this section on p. 65. There are four chairs in the fishbowl. They are taken by people who want to discuss th


Reconciliation Has Arrived!


Materials: Multicoloured post-its, pencils, Flipchart paper   Exercise description Everyone gets a few multicoloured post-its (have extra post-its on hand if needed). The task is to imagine that


Reflection and Analysis of Teamwork


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description Step 1 – Everyone thinks individually about the following: How satisfied am I with my behaviour in teamwork?  How satisfied am I with the behav


Reflection Groups


The Reflection Groups are conceived of as a space for reflection and exchange among participants without the presence of the trainers. They are formed during the first or second day of the training an


Rotating Threes


Groups of three chairs are set up to make a circle (see illustration). Participants that make up the group of three are divided into person A, person B and person C. The chairs may be marked as A, B a


Rotating Triplets of Peace Activism


Exercise description Type of exercise: Rotating Triplets   Possible questions: How would you describe the work in your organisation to your neighbour (someone who knows nothing about it)? What is


Second Glance


Exercise description Step 1: View of the conflict from the perspective of group A – others speaking Place two chairs in front of the others and invite two people who are not of nationality A, but belo


Shame and Pride in the Narratives of My Society


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description Split into small groups based on ethnicity. The task is to prepare wall newspapers about: “Shame in the Narratives of My Society” and “Pride in


Similarities and Differences


Exercise description The participants fill out the worksheet (15 minutes) with the following questions: Three things that I have in common with the rest of the group; Three things that I have in commo


Similarities and Differences 2*


Materials: Worksheets, pencils Exercise description The participants are given copies of the worksheet with the following questions: Three things I like Three things I don’t like ͳ Three things we lik


Situations When I Had Power


Materials: Large piece of paper, markers   Exercise description Divide into small groups. Topics for discussion: ͳ A situation when you had power and how you felt about it. ͳ A situation when you


Situations When We Were Afraid


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into small groups of three or four. In small groups, discuss the topic: “A situation when I felt fear”. Back in plenary, prepare a


Small and Big Animals


Everyone should silently think of their favourite animal (or any animal). The task is for everyone to line up from smallest to biggest animal without talking and only by imitating the animal they have


Small Groups Discussion about Communication


Exercise description Split into small groups  (of 4, for example). Discussion topics: How do I react when I’m bothered by someone’s way of communicating (use concrete examples)? A good reaction in my


Smarties


Materials: A few hundred Smarties(or similar sweets) and small dishes for all the participants Exercise description The whole group sits in a semicircle and everyone takes a small dish. Before the sta


Social Groups, Power and Privilege


Materials: Large pieces of paper, felt-tips   Exercise description Step 1. In plenary put together a wall newspaper on the topic of “Which social groups have more power in our societies?” Step 2.


Squares, Dots


Materials: Coloured stickers of different colours (squares, dots, etc.)     Exercise description Every participant gets a sticker on his/her forehead without seeing what the sticker is. For


Statue Theatre: Women, Men


Exercise description   The participants split into two female and two male groups. Each group should prepare a statue, but the topic for one female and one male group is Women, while the topic fo


Statues Theatre


The main difference between forum theatre and statue theatre is that statue theatre involves setting up human bodies as statues (immobile scenes without sound), while forum theatre is about role play


Strengths and Weaknesses in Ways of Decision Making


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Exercise description Split into four small groups. Each group is assigned one way of decision making: compromise, consensus, voting and “follow the leader”. The tas


Structures*


Divide into groups of four or five. Each group should “build” the given structure by linking themselves up. The structures can be: a bridge, a tree, a school, a plane, a bus, a ship, a tower, a temple


Suggestions for the Next Training


Materials: Big paper, felt-tips   Exercise description Write the words “less”, “more” or “the same” on three separate sheets of paper. Participants have the task of writing down on these pieces o


Swamp


Materials: Masking tape Exercise description A grid of squares is drawn on the floor, 6 x 8 squares It can be made by using masking tape. Each square should be big enough to allow a person to stand in


Taboos


Materials: Flipchart paper, marker   Exercise description The whole group works together to produce a wall newspaper about: “What taboos are present in our society about the violent past?” This i


Targets


Materials: A big paper with targets drawn on it, felt-tips or small stickers   Exercise description Draw targets on the big pieces of paper beforehand (see image). Above each target is one of the


Telling It*


Exercise description The trainer asks the participants to sit in a circle. When everyone is seated comfortably, the exercise procedures are set up as are the rules of the discussion. The trainer then


The Attitude of Our Societies to the Past


Exercise description Discussion in small groups of four or five people (mixed in terms of region, nationality and age) about: “How does your community deal with a painful past? What from the past is b


The Heroes


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into small groups based on nationality: Albanians, Serbs, Croats, Bosniaks, Macedonians, etc. Each group should m


The Heroes 2


Subject: Personal heroes. Participants work individually and write down who their heroes were during childhood and who they are now. . They split into small groups (made up of people from different re


The Media Image of the Past


Materials: Different daily newspapers and political magazines from the region, Flipchart paper, scissors, glue   Exercise description Split into three groups. Each group gets a few different dail


The War and I


Materials: Chairs The hot seats method   The person sitting in the hot seat in the middle has the task to tell their story about “The War and I”.


Then they discuss in small groups, without feedback in the plenary.


Exercise description Split into small groups (of four, for example). Discussion topics: – What do I find hardest in conflicts? – What dilemmas do I have? – In which situations do I find myself at a lo


Theoretical Summary: Principles of Nonviolent Communication


Materials: Flipchart   Exercise description The trainer briefly introduces the principles of nonviolent  communication  and  various  techniques (I-speech, active listening, open-ended questions)


Things I (Don’t) Like About Myself / About Others in Teamwork…


Materials: Post-its, flipchart paper Exercise description Everyone is given a few post-its. Each person writes down their answers to the following questions: What have I noticed about myself in the pa


Third Time*


Materials: A lot of newspapers, 10 rolls of sticky tape or masking tape, paper, pencils Exercise description Introductory directions: “Find a pair for this experiential exercise, which is challenging


This Picture Speaks about Me


The collection of postcards and photographs is placed in the centre of the circle. Everyone has a few minutes to look through them and pick one that speaks about them in some way. When everyone is bac


Three Events that Affected My Engagement


A timeline is drawn on the board or flipchart representing three periods: before the war; during the war; after the war. For each of the three periods, each participant writes an event on a post-it th


To My Wall


Exercise description Split into two groups. The groups line up facing each other so that each person from one group has a pair from the other. The pairs stand with their arms stretched out in front of


Tower


Materials: A few pairs of scissors and sticky tape, old newspapers or used flipchart paper Exercise description The participants split into groups of four or five people. All the groups stay in the sa


Training Motivation


Going around in a circle, each person answers the questions: Why did you decide to attend this training? What attracted you and motivated you?


Tram


Materials: Five chairs Exercise description Set up five chairs next to each other (like seats on a tram) so that the whole group can see them. The second and fourth chair are reserved for women and th


Twenty Minutes of Blindness


Materials: Blindfolds for all participants (scarves, kerchiefs)   Exercise description Slowly and clearly read the instructions: “The whole group will spend 20 minutes doing as they please. You c


Uncomfortable Chairs*


Exercise description All the participants receive a card with one of the following instructions: “Put all the chairs in a circle. You have 10 minutes to complete the task.” “Put all the chairs by the


Using a Chart to Analyse Conflict


Materials: Printed out charts for all participants Exercise description The participants are handed out copies of the conflict analysis chart. Their task is to think of a conflict they were involved i


Venn Diagrams (Sets)


Materials: Papers with Venn diagrams (sets) Everyone receives a handout with as many Venn diagrams (three ellipses that intersect, see picture) as there are participants. Write the name of one person


Violence According to Galtung, Structural and Cultural Violence


Read more: Kobe jstor  


Violence Barometer


Exercise description Suggested statements for the barometer: If I felt under threat, I would use violence in such circumstances. Better violence than cowardice. A victim can be the perpetrator of viol


Voting on a Verdict


Materials: Two charts of voting outcomes (see annex), a lot of small notes of equal size to serve as ballots, two flipchart papers to record the voting results   Exercise description The particip


Wall Newspaper


Wall newspapers function similarly to brainstorming, with the facilitator not only acting as a recorder, but moderating the process during which participants present writing suggestions and ask clarif


Wall Newspaper: Conflicts


Wall Newspaper: Conflicts Arise Because of… Duration: 5–10 minutes Wall Newspaper: Types of Behaviour in Conflicts Duration: 5–10 minutes


Wall Newspaper: Discrimination


Possible subjects: Examples of Discrimination in Our Societies Groups of People Discriminated in Our Societies    


Wall Newspaper: Examples of Nonviolent Action



Wall Newspaper: How Is Trust Lost?



Wall Newspaper: How Satisfied Are We with Teamwork?



Wall Newspaper: My Dilemmas about Reconciliation



Wall Newspaper: Team Work


The answers to the following questions are written on two papers: What Makes Decision Making More Difficult? What Can Help?


Wall Newspaper: Team Work 2


What Makes Teamwork Successful?


Wall Newspaper: Type of Violence



Wall Newspaper: What Contributes to a Feeling of Mutual Trust?



Wall Newspaper: What Determines Perception?



Wall Newspaper: What I’m Trying to Achieve with Nonviolent Communication



Wall Newspaper: What is Constructive Dealing with the Past? What Is Destructive Dealing with the Past?



Wall Newspaper: What is Missing in War Stories?



Wall Newspaper: What Is Nonviolent Communication?



Wall Newspaper: What Is Peacebuilding?



Wall Newspaper: What Needs Are Met by National Identity?



Wall Newspaper: What Nonviolence Means to Me



Wall Newspaper: When I Hear “Dealing with the Past”, I Think of…



Wall Newspaper: Who Do Dominant Narratives About the Wars Serve and What Is Their Purpose?



Wall Newspaper: Who/What Determines the Roles of Women and Men in Society?



Wall Newspaper: Why is Peacebuilding Needed in My Society?



What are the Greatest Challenges in Peacebuilding?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into small groups. Discuss and prepare a presentation about: “What are the greatest challenges in peacebuilding?” This is followed


What Bothers Me About Us Is…


Exercise description The participants split into same-gender pairs. The topic is “What bothers me about us women/men is…” First one person speaks (for about two minutes) and the other just listens.


What Bothers Me About War Stories? What Is Missing?


Exercise description In small groups, the participants discuss what bothers them in war stories and what they think is missing. Discussions in the small groups are followed by a discussion in the plen


What Can I Do?


Materials: Large pieces of paper, markers/felt- tips   Exercise description Several large pieces of paper are placed on the floor and each of them has one of the following questions/titles: What


What Can Others Do?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into four mixed small groups. The small groups discuss: “What would I like to hear from others and what would make it a step towar


What Can We Do to Take a Step towards Reconciliation?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Step 1. Split into groups based on home countries and prepare wall newspapers about: “What can we do to take a step towards reconciliati


What Can We Do?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers Work in four mixed groups of about five participants each. The task is to discuss what they could do to reduce discrimination against women and against men and to n


What Contributes to Peacebuilding?


Materials: A4 or A5 paper, felt-tip pens   Exercise description The participants are given three pieces of paper and asked to write in large legible letters three things they recognise in their s


What Do You See in the Drawing?


  Materials: A copy of the drawing for each participant   Exercise description Prepare one or more drawings with different images beforehand. Hand out copies of the drawing to the participan


What I (Don’t) Like in Communication with Others


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description On the wall or flipchart stand, put up a large paper with the title What I don’t like in communication with others. The participants vol


What I Liked/What Bothered Me in Our Communication


Materials: Post-its, pencils, flipchart paper   Exercise description Everyone  is  given  a  few  post-its.  More  post-its are kept on hand in case someone needs them. The participants are taske


What Is Green?


Everyone sits in a circle. Their task is to silently count the number of green things in the room. After one minute, several people say how many things they have counted. Then everyone closes their ey


What Is It Like Being King/Queen?


Materials: Post-its, pencils, chair   Exercise description Find a volunteer to be the king/queen of the group. They sit in a chair in the middle of the room while the rest write on post-its what


What is the Role of Women/Men in Society?


Materials: Post-its in two colours Exercise description   Distribute the post-its so that women and men get different colours, e.g. green for women and yellow for men. The task is to write the fi


What Our Societies Deny


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants split into groups based on nationality. Their task is to discuss and prepare a presentation about What our society deni


What Should We Remember as a Society?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into smaller groups. Step 1:Prepare a wall newspaper about “What do we remember (from the recent past) as a society?” Step 2: Prep


What Tells Us That We Are (Not) Living in Peace? What Could Lead to a New War?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Split into three groups. Each group is tasked with preparing a wall newspaper about one of the following topics: What tells us that we a


What Tells Us That We Are (Not) Living in Peace? What Could Lead to a New War? 2


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description Instead of splitting up into small groups, wall newspapers can be prepared collectively for each of the three topics. What tells us that


What Type of Man Do I Like? What Type of Woman Do I Like?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description   The participants split into four groups: two of just men and two of just women. One male and one female group (separately) write


When is War Justified?


Materials: Paper, pencils, flipchart paper   Exercise description Everyone sits in a circle with a paper and pencil. They have a few minutes to note down their answer to the question “When is war


When My National Identity Affected My Life


Materials: Chairs   Exercise description The hot seats method The person sitting in the hot seat in the middle discusses the topic: When my national identity affected my life.


Where Do My Fears Come From?


Materials: Paper, pencils, flipchart paper, sticky tape   Exercise description Everyone works independently, thinking about “My fears” and “Where do they come from?” and noting down their thought


Where I Come From


Everyone has a few minutes to think about the place they come from (however they understand it – city/country/region) and the things they like about it. Then, sitting in a circle, everyone takes turns


Where I Live


Make a large “carpet” by connecting the flipchart papers with masking tape (so they don’t move around). It should be large enough so that the participants can gather round it with everyone having enou


Who Am I? From Where Do I Draw the Strength to Be Who I Am?


Materials: Magazines, newspapers, collage paper, flipchart papers, crayons, felt- tip pens, glue, scissors, music   Exercise description Instructions: Use the available materials to make a collag


Who is Supposed to Reconcile with Whom/What?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers, felt-tip pens   Exercise description Flipchart papers are laid out on the floor (enough of them so that a number of participants can write on them at the same


Who Is This?


Materials: Small pieces of paper with the names of all participants, “hat”, paper and pencils/felt-tip pens   Exercise description The small pieces of paper with the names of the participants are


Why Reconciliation?


Materials: Flipchart paper, markers   Exercise description The participants should imagine themselves having to explain to someone why we need reconciliation and find arguments in support of it.


World Café


This is an exercise where discussions and exchanges are structured to take place around more tables – for instance, 3 to 5 tables for a group of 20 participants. Every table has a “host” or “hostess”